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Glam Punk

Darker blue dyed hair, shaved sides, burnt orange skinnies, knit black sweater with pleather design on shoulders, black and grey vest, black boots, glam lightening earring, ready to roll.

posted 1 week ago with 5 notes
#ftm #transgender #mypic #punk #glam #queer #genderqueer

drfeelgoodcruiser:

socialjusticefail:

And how does this trivialize and normalize it? I have heard that rape survivors have used rape jokes to deal with their situation.

"When you lose your power to laugh, you lose your power to think."
-Henry Drummond in Inherit The Wind.

Rape is indeed a problem of overwhelming size and power, but ask yourself this: should it be that way? If we can make the problem seem smaller and less intimidating, we can deal with it more easily. If we can laugh through life, we can clear our minds of stress and baggage that would keep us from being productive. If you’re the right kind of person, you wouldn’t just laugh at a rape joke—-you would laugh at it and then continue talking about the problem with a new perspective.

But if you’re going to make rape jokes, make them ABOUT RAPE, or better yet, about rapists themselves—-don’t make them about rape VICTIMS. This is okay:
"As a policeman, I deal with rape victims on a daily basis. Women seem to really trust me when I’m in my uniform."
This isn’t:
GUY: Hey girl, you’re gonna get laid tonight.
GIRL: How do you know that? Are you psychic?
GUY: Nope—-I’m just stronger than you.

Any side regarding rape, no matter which angle or side that is, is not a side to joke about. Rape is a serious matter and should always be treated as such. But that doesn’t mean we need to keep it hush hush. It should be discussed and it should be talked about. But in a non-ignorant manner, in an educational and equal way. We should discuss how it is never ever the victim’s fault, how anyone can be a victim of it. How there should be discreet ways to report and get help, how there should be networks and information.

As for the uniform joke, while most might find it harmless and cute, and true it is less serious, it plays on other things. It plays on the sexual objectification of an individual wearing a uniform. And while I personally do not see this, it could be argued that “oh, so women should be more comfortable because you’re attractive in a uniform?” - and note how you mentioned just women there. Again, not how I wholly see it, but just another view.

(Source: earthbounddynasty)

posted 2 weeks ago with 26 notes
#tw: rape #rape #consent

coyadd:

socialjusticefail:

And how does this trivialize and normalize it? I have heard that rape survivors have used rape jokes to deal with their situation.

I always thought that the joke WAS the fact that it wasn’t normal. If it were normal, rape jokes wouldn’t be funny.

Exactly. They are not normal, and most jokes regarding rape deal with the victim or are victim blaming. Most jokes are about raping another, or something similar. Even if it isn’t meant in seriousness, it isn’t funny. Rape is a serious problem and is NEVER acceptable or excusable. Ever.

If some survivors can *healthily* use jokes to help themselves cope, then that is their personal choice and that is their power. But that doesn’t make it okay for everyone else and that doesn’t make it any type of an expectation for other rape survivors - as I know most do not and cannot joke about it. As a sexual assault survivor, not even rape, I don’t find it funny and I can’t make jokes. They are only triggering.

(Source: earthbounddynasty)

posted 2 weeks ago with 37 notes
#transgender #gender #queer #identity #psa
posted 2 weeks ago with 26 notes
#rape #tw: rape #psa #social justice

Color Me Shaved

Shaved the sides as I always do; I really liked this shot but I can’t decide if I like it black n’ white or color more!

WOO!

Friend of mine gave me a couple of their extra packers, since I was having issues wearing my STP comfortably. AND FUCKING HELLS YEAH I FEEL AMAZING. BOO FUCKING YEAH!

posted 3 weeks ago with 0 notes
#transgender #ftm #transboy #packer #awesome

dokuhime:

university starts today

someone save me

(Source: dokuhime)

jegusismyhomeboy:

undoubtedlyfuckedup:

thisis-my-note:

hetalianswag:

seselapod:

d0gewithabl0ge:

THINGS U SHOULDNT SAY TO AN ARTIST WHILE THEYRE DRAWING

SEE ALSO “WHY IS HE/SHE NAKED” iM NO T DONE YE T SMARTASS

"OMG WHY DOES IT HAVE BOOBS YOU PERV"
IT’S A GIRL I’M DRAWING A FUCKI GN GIRL.

"Why isn’t the rest of it shaded?" BECAUSE I’M STILL SHADING THE FUCKING FACE FUCK NUGGET

"Hey you missed that bit" DOES IT LOOK LIKE IM FCKINGNSM FINISHED U NIPPLE WANK

nipple wank

(Source: ehnoshima, via konnorvas)

posted 1 month ago with 196,569 notes
#yes

bukibun:

thepalebride:

Impossible…!

(Source: twitter.com, via lunarm0xie)

posted 1 month ago with 38,456 notes
#yugioh #win #lawl #cosplay